- Slipper boots
- Hair bands
- Cwtches with kittens
- A brand new razor
- Freshly washed hair
See the whole list here
I downloaded a cute app recently, called Balanced (which is currently free, whoop!) that tries to help you keep track of the little things you keep meaning to do but…don’t. It’s fairly versatile, which I like. I have things like drink water once a day, write a blog post once a week and swim twice a month, but you can put anything you like at whatever frequency you want.
I’ve been using it for a couple of weeks now, and it’s definitely helping me to remember things, which is nice! For example: I know I should be drinking more water during the day but I always forget. Now Balanced pops up with a reminder to do it and marks you as late if you don’t – which I hate. Voila, I’m now drinking more water.
With that in mind, one of the things on my ‘balanced’ list is to “set goals” once a month, so I’m going to try setting some easy, sustainable goals to try and move myself more towards the intentional life I’d like to be living.
5 Goals for November
Yes, they might seem easy. That’s sort of the whole point. I want to be mindful, not a marathon runner. I know that I do little to no exercise at the moment, but I don’t think the way to change that is to pretend that I’m suddenly going to start going to the gym every day ;)
Instead I’m going to start small and hopefully build myself up to something bigger. Blah blah, yawn yawn. It’s nothing new but something is better than nothing – right?
Let’s see how I do!
If you want to know more about the app the website is here. I’m not sure if it’s available on Android, but it’s definitely available on iOS :)
Not a sponsored post – I just like the app a lot!
(Alternatively titled: Boom, I’m A Freelancer Now.)
I sort of fell into freelance work. Most of my adult working life was spent sitting in an office, typing things or making spreadsheets or re-arranging meetings for people earning more money than me. I was good at admin, but it didn’t exactly make my heart sing. I could only find temp jobs when I moved to Cardiff originally and the lack of a permanent, stable job did make the move into freelance easier, but it wasn’t a conscious decision until I’d actually already been doing it for about six months. Whoops.
I taught myself how to code when I was a teenager and I’ve loved the web ever since. A friend offered me a job in a small company (Hi, Rob) then someone else offered me some hours and a few more people came to me when they needed some web things doing. So now I work as a freelancer and split my time between a few awesome companies. I mostly write blog posts, noodle about on various social media outlets, market products, sometimes I review cameras and occasionally I’ll create some graphics for a site. I’m not gonna lie, it’s a pretty fun life. I am grateful, I promise.
The most fun bit of my job is the work I do for Cwtch the Bride – a Welsh wedding blog which was set up by our wedding photographer in February of this year. (You can see all the posts I wrote about our wedding here if you’re bothered.) I’ve written over 100 posts for Cwtch (which is kind of crazy when you think about it) so I thought I’d share some of my favourites in case any of you are getting married soon and need some advice :)
Also, it’s nice to be proud of your work and my freelance portfolio is still being created (in the same way they the photographer is never in the photos, the freelancer never writes posts for their own blog, it would seem).
In no particular order:
If nothing else, this should teach you that I like to use colons in blog post titles, apparently.
I’ve also recently written a couple of posts for Hayley (of #TeamMASH fame)’s new website for blogging beginners: Bonjour Blogger. If you’re new to blogging I urge you to check it out, there’s some good stuff there! :)
My god that’s a lot of links in one post, isn’t it. Go forth, click, be merry.
One of the items on my Life List is make at least one meal from 25 different cuisines. I’m currently up to 20, and I’m stuck. (That photo is our Laksa Lemak recipe – it’s delicious and has become a staple at Chez Chong over the years)
So far we’ve cooked:
Some of those cuisines we’ve embraced and now cook from regularly, which is fun. I have a list of cuisines I’d like to try, but I’m struggling to find traditional recipes for some of them, or recipes where I’d readily be able to access all the ingredients. Putting pineapple and coconut in something and calling it Carribean isn’t going to work here, I think.
These are the cuisines I’m considering but I’m happy to be given other options:
I suppose if I was being really lazy I could say that we already know how to cook English cuisine and probably something American but that feels like a bit of a cop out.
So! I’m turning to you. Do you have any tried and tested tasty recipes that I can borrow to help finish off my list? :)
Thanks for being so adorable, and for having hypoallergenic fur. Also thanks for being such an awesome vehicle for my “dogs dressed as food” dreams. I can’t wait to own one of you – you bet I’ll be ordering a hotdog costume at the same time.
This week I ticked off another of my 30 for 30 goals: give blood. I’ve been giving blood semi-regularly for a few years, but I took a break between 2010 and this year (mostly because I was lazy and forgetful, not because I specifically didn’t want to give) so I decided to add it to my list to encourage me to remember to go.
As blood types go mine is fairly rare (fun fact #1: Q and I have exactly the same blood type, B+. Fun fact #2: in my family we have all four blood types: my dad is O, my mum is AB, my sister is A and I’m B :) ) so I know it’s even more important for me to give as there are less people with my blood type to begin with.
It’s hard to impress sometimes how important it is to do – and I know that some of my friends are excluded from being able to give for various reasons, which is a shame but always makes me feel like it’s even more important for me to donate, as someone who is able to do so. I have friends who have had transfusions, when in accidents or during cancer treatment and it genuinely can mean the difference between life and death for a staggering number of people.
Still not convinced? You get free biscuits and squash after you’ve done it. Everyone loves biscuits, right?
If you live in Wales (like I do) then you can find your nearest donation session at the Welsh Blood Service website. If you live elsewhere in the UK (like I used to) you can use the National Blood Service website instead. So you have no excuse not to donate, really. Even if you have a needle phobia, I promise, it really isn’t that bad. If you’ve never given blood then maybe give it a go, huh? What’s the worst that can happen? If you do it for the first time after reading this then let me know and I might send you something nice as a thank you. (I am an excellent gift giver, fyi.) INCENTIVES, YO.
This is the first update I’ve done since December apparently, yikes. I’ve ticked 14 things off my list in the last 9 months, and, er, added 14. Ha. I’ve completed 59 of 221 at the moment, which I think is pretty good going for a list that’s not even three years old.
As always, the more I do the more I think of that I’d like to do and the happier I become at being able to tick of those items. Some of them (like See Paris from the Eiffel tower) have been things I’ve wanted to do since I was a little girl, so it’s awesome to finally be able to fulfill them :)
Work continues on the 30 for 30 list, too. I’m three months in with four goals completed so far. Most of the others are in progress tho, and it’s been so much fun re-reading all my favourite books and writing letters to my friends. 30 has been a pretty great year so far!
Visit Cardiff Castle
Plant a cherry tree
Learn how to do a handstand under water
Eat a pain au chocolat in Paris
Go to an aquarium with Tzevai
Win a pub quiz
Do something memorable for my 30th birthday
Buy a house
Buy a waffle iron and make waffles
Buy something wildly frivolous from Habitat
Take a holiday that involves a hammock
Go on a holiday with my friends
See Paris from the Eiffel tower
Learn to poach an egg
Pick an avocado and eat it
Do the Harry Potter studio tour
Complete my 30 for 30 list
Sleep under the stars
Learn how to crochet
Swim a length under water
Learn how to do a handstand under water
Give 50 Kiva loans
Get a Marc Johns illustration as a tattoo
Donate my hair
Shave my head for charity